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Marilyn Gale DeVetter (Barnes)
February 11, 2011
To the Devetters - Doug, you did such a beautiful presentation of Gale's life on this website. May God Bless each member of the family and know that she "Hearts you" every day!!! Gale was a special part of my time on State PTA and I truly appreciated all her talents and humor. Love and Prayers, Rosaline

February 08, 2011
This slideshow was wonderful! Thank you for putting this together. Gale's "journey" and the people she touched was amazing. I will miss her yearly update at Christmas, it will seem like something important is missing. I'm thinking it's hard for her family to fill the hours normally spent with her, such an empty feeling. I send my thoughts and prayers for you all. This sad news really took me by surprise.
February 04, 2011
I have always been very fortunate throughout my life to have been surrounded by the geniuses, the gifted, the movers and shakers, and the people who make this ride called 'life' the enjoyable experience it has been. I guess God has been good to me by giving me such people to lean on, no matter which way I leaned. Gail certainly was one of these people, especially in the voice department. I sang with her at choir and tried to keep up with her and the other talented folks in the Hayward Chorus. Gail and the others certainly made me sound better.

But more than her talent was the welcome smile she always seemed to flash for everyone. Her smile is the meteorological equivalent of a bright, sunny day. That smile always seemed to say "Hi, I'm Gail, and you count!" She was always a source of validity and friendship, and everyone knew it.

Helen and I will see you later Gail, God permitting, of course.
January 27, 2011
I am fortunate to have known the DeVetter family for over 30 years now.

During my high school days and friendship with Sharon, the DeVetter house was always the place for kids to congregate. All of us 'girls' would hang out, have sleep overs and drink Tab. As Steven and Doug got older, their friends were constantly at the house as well. The reason the 'kids' hung out at the DeVetter's is because of Mrs. DeVetter. She welcomed everyone in to her home. There was always room for one more at her crowded dinner table. She was a second Mom to everyone.

As I got older, I began to appreciate her as a woman and not just another Mom. She worked tirelessly at so many charities, the PTA being the one that stands out. She didn't just volunteer, she took a leadership role and she committed herself to a worthy cause! She was never too tired to help and was an eager helper for wedding showers, wedding decorations and any other event.

Mrs. DeVetter, you will be missed greatly. I am proud to have known you and your entire family.
January 26, 2011
Having grown up with Gale, I miss her dearly, as so many do. She was truly a remarkable and beautiful woman. I enjoyed every time we were together, talked on the phone, or shared e-mails. I send condolences to everyone who shared her life, and she will be my "forever friend"
Bev Lee
January 25, 2011
Gale was truly a special person and a wonderful friend who will be missed by those whose lives she touched. We grew up together and treasured our years in Ceres through Elementary as well as Ceres High School. We have continued to come together with our "School Girl" luncheons and we were especially delighted with the one held this past October. Gordon chaufered Gale and her delicious homemade desert - we were so happy that she was able to share the day with us. I will miss her Sweet Smile, Positive Personality and Warm Heart.
Her family was truly Blessed to have had Gale in their lives as wife, mother,grandmother,and sister and I know that the many wonderful memories will certainly be of comfort in the days and months to come.
God Bless All of You and May She Rest In Peace.

My Continued Prayers will be With All of You.
January 24, 2011
Gale I have wanted to write to you so many times since you left us. You were always there with a supportive word or a laugh. I always felt I was still part of the family. Your love for others did show so bright. I miss you Gale. Love Sherrill
January 19, 2011
Dear Marilyn Gale,
You are a beautiful woman inside and out and you are greatly missed. I love you.
"Marilyn Gail"
January 18, 2011
Gale was always so kind and caring to me when I was a child. Her smile was beautiful - so warm and welcoming. My heart goes out to you all. You will be in my prayers.
Kerri (Schmidt) Barbour
January 17, 2011
I am so sorry to hear about my dear friend passing - she has always had a special light that followers her when she enters a room, SPECIAL AND SWEET, would be words to describe her, I will miss her great smile, I am truly blessed to have known her. God bless you all.
January 17, 2011
Gordon, Sharon, Steve, Doug, Linda & Family- I'm so very sorry to learn of Gale's passing. I have very fond and warm memories of her from my childhood...my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Joette Schmidt
January 16, 2011
So sorry to hear about your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
January 16, 2011
God is the only one who knows the hairs on our head,each one, so it is God only who knew His plan for Gale! She taught many people how to be like Jesus by her never ending enthusiasm and complete and honest devotion to helping others..this allowed her to love and be the words "family and friend" to so many people..she touched a tremendous amount of hearts over the years..gale is hard at work for the Lord as we speak and singing joyfully, her eyes sparkling and KNOWING she will see all of us again..Gordon, may the Lord bless you and keep you..lean into the Lord for comfort and rest. losing parents is a really hurtful event, but Gale knew her children would travel through the grief with
comfort from her..God is near..
Ron and Charlotte Boehm
January 14, 2011
Gale was an absolutely unbelievable person. She was an adoring wife, mother and grandmother. Her marvelous ready smile and great sense of humor were a joy to all who knew her. I had the pleasure of growing up with her in our town of Ceres. She is going to be greatly missed by all of her friends.

I send my best to her family who were blessed to have such a beautiful woman in their lives. May her memory live on with you and help bring you inner peace.

Marge Derby
Modesto, CA
January 14, 2011
We offer our prayers to you and your family. I know Gale will be missed by many.

Bob and Laura Butscher,
January 14, 2011
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother, Grandmother, wife and wonderful friend! Gale’s high energy, big smile and enthusiasm for life was contagious and a joy to be around. May her best memories bring you comfort and joy as you celebrate her life. My thoughts and prayers are with the family as you journey through this life’s chapter.

She will be missed,but never forgotten.
January 13, 2011
?Through Marriage Gale became part of our family. We always enjoyed her company when we shared a family gathering or went to special events. We especially loved the invitations to Gale’s singing group. All the amazing cards she sent that always seamed to suit our life and personality.

I always wish I could have had that get up and go like Gale without hesitation.

Bless you Gale, you will always be missed knowing you are not here.
January 13, 2011
My memories of Gale go back to the late 70's when I and my late wife,( I have since remarried ) transfered to Gordons squadron to relieve him. Gale was always active in squadron family affairs, childrens parties, Navy Wives Club and the community. After retirement we moved within three blocks of them beknown to us. We somehow connected and over the years we spent quality time together.Gale was very special and will be missed by all that knew her. Our prayers and thoughts go to you, Gordon, and your family for your loss.
January 13, 2011
My husband and I were neighbors of the DeVetters for several years. WE were friends foreverafter. I always admired Gale as a friend, neighbor wife,nurse,and her community service. With her encouragment in the late 60's I went to Nursing School myself. She was so very special, words cannot express how highly I thought of her. Jean Hawkins
January 13, 2011
Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this time of the loss of Gale. We talked many times when I phoned about the Loaves & Fishes Ministry we both served on. She certainly will be missed by all who knew her.
January 13, 2011
The past several Christmas holidays I spent with the DeVetters at their home. Gale graciuosly shared here lovely family. She always had the BEST decorating I have ever seen! No surface or wall or room was left undecorated! I will misss you Gale and will always keep your warmth with me! Love, Pat Phillips
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